We go through many phases after a breakup: denial, sadness, rage, and resentment. Negative ideas have taken over your mind. Then comes the time to set new goals and concentrate on yourself. You feel so powerful, perhaps even thankful for the breakup as an event, since you see it as an opportunity to fulfil your objectives and improve your life.
You believe that if you hadn’t split up, you wouldn’t have done as much as you did. It takes courage to recognise that you have done so much without him. Not because he was to blame. It was you and the way you love. You used to prioritise and set objectives for yourself. His desires came first. His dreams were ahead of him. Why? Because you learnt to love that way.
You’ve matured. Your perspectives are not the same. Your routines. But no one believes you, so you are unable to endure it. They’re worried about you. You’ve accomplished so much, but you still appear frail. And the negative thoughts return, as do the insecurities. Is it because you care so much? Is this because you express your emotions? What are you doing wrong that no one believes you?
You are putting yourself in a constant process to prove that you’ve changed. That you are evolving. That you’ve left everything behind. You’re seeking approval for your achievements. This is unnecessary. Don’t allow other people’s opinions to influence you. Keep up the progress. And even if everyone believes you’ll fall again, you keep going. In the end, you only have yourself.
Τελειόφοιτη του τμήματος κοινωνικής πολιτικής, δραστήρια, κοινωνική με μεγάλη αγάπη για τη ζωή. Ζωντανεύω μέσα από την έκφραση των συναισθημάτων μου και των προβληματισμών μου. Λατρεύω τα βιβλία, τα ζώα και τις βόλτες με τους αγαπημένους μου. Αδυναμία μου οι εξορμήσεις σε μέρη, τα οποία κρύβουν τη δική τους ιστορία. Έτσι και εγώ, λοιπόν, βρίσκομαι εδώ για να πω τη δική μου ιστορία. Enjoy.
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